Mourning my son's death
Hi , I lost my son July 12th , 2013 at the age of 31, he leaves five children. He was in a divorce and custody battle,. he was accused of many things , one of being a Satanist because he listened to Korn music.
Well as a tribute to my son and Korn,, because they are his favorite band, I rocked his funeral by playing Korn's songs , " DEAD " as the intro , then " 4 U '" then "Coming Undone", because after the year we have been through with him, we were all there.
Pallbearers and Family wore his Korn shirts , his casket and vault was black with stainless steel. The inside of his vault was all shinny stainless steel ,, his own personal stage to rock.! He is buried a few miles from my home so I go over and play Korn for him.
I regret not having it video taped . Why you ask am I sharing , well I am just trying to cope with losing him ,, people around you move on even though you are still grieving. They can only do so much and we have to deal with it ourselves. So to me this is for him as much as me .
So, you can rock your funeral however you want. Even the older generation friends who came to the funeral , thought it was tastefully done, so I did not offend anyone.
My son always tried to get us to go with him to a concert , and we didn't. I regret that, so parents , listen to what your children are interested in , even if you don't like it , you will find a happy medium somewhere.
My son I love and miss you with all my heart, hope you have peace,, and this was 4 U, MOM