On Thu, Apr 26, 2012 at 6:49 AM,
Ooooh that really sux. Sorry girl. I do the same thing but recently I've had a fire under my ass from my mother to get my grades up and graduate. I do NOT want to spend another minute in this hell called high school. I've hated since I started and I worked hard to get where I am now. But you can do it! I know you can! I have hope for you. I know how you feel cuz times have been quite tough fo me recently, not only at school but mostly at home so I feel like I am going to go insane! You know? We can both pull through this! :) good luck!
On Thu, Apr 26, 2012 at 6:36 AM,
A "reasoning" if you will from the University of North Carolina- Chapel Hill:
"Procrastination and perfectionism often go hand in hand. Perfectionists tend to procrastinate because they expect so much of themselves, and they are scared about whether or not they can meet those high standards."
We are NOT procrastinators...we ARE PERFECTIONISTS!!!
On Wed, Apr 25, 2012 at 11:11 PM,
Sorry to hear that bur life is hard ... honestly I should be on my lesson now but I'm not going there becouse I'm lazy ... and i'll must py for that .... I hope everything will be good for ya !!!
On Wed, Apr 25, 2012 at 2:37 PM,
Live and learn or learn to live, I have not quite figured out which direction that goes in.
I am the biggest procrastinator known to man/woman, kicking myself often in the ass. What is the antidote? I am half century old and still have not found it.
Like right now I should be making out bills, in one hand into the other bullshit, but I am sitting her making KoRn my priority. I wonder why that is? Because this feels way better silly!
You are not stupid or lazy dear KoRn child, shit happens everyday, even if it is self infliction; stabbing yourself in the ass does not feel good, but in light of it all at least it is you and not someone else, which is a lot easier to recover from; setting direction for yourself. I bet this will not happen again, you will make a 'to do list,' and then fun, whatever, after completed. OOOOOOOOOOOO that is the antidote, I am now grabbing my head and saying 'I am all messed up inside!' (The To Do List)
I hope you are making lead way for your exam tomorrow, I am going to go make some lead way in my checkbook; watching the dollar figure go down, down, down, as I pay people I do not even want to pay.
Good Luck to you, I will be thinking of you. Quit beating yourself OK-Lesson learned, do not be like your ancient KoRn sister. ;oP
P.S You are not screwed if there is a will there is a way. You are intelligent I know this you will figure it out.
On Wed, Apr 25, 2012 at 2:00 PM,
LOL I'm excactly the same. I do art/textiles and I have a 15 hour exam in 2 weeks and I've dont shit all. I actually spent the entire 100 minute lesson today cutting snowflakes out of paper which has no relevance to anything I'm doing. *procrastination yaaay*
Goodluck with your exam anyway! Its surprising how much work you get done a day before a deadline. :D
On Wed, Apr 25, 2012 at 1:35 PM,
Hi Hanabi! I'm sorry to hear that you're in a bad spot, that always sucks :( However, there's no reason to beat yourself up over it. People constantly make mistakes, but I think the biggest mistake a person can make is to mess something up and then spend time regretting it. The best you can do is learn from it, you can almost consider it a gift, because since you made a mistake now, if you learn from it you won't have it happen later. Does that make sense, I had a hard time explaining that :P
I hope you feel better! Good luck!