Stages of eating me away... :,(

Wed, Feb 1, 2012 at 6:34 AM By: Sunset_Tahoe


So one of my friends Justin (the one I mention on the message on my profile About me or whatever.) is going thru some trouble with his bitch ass ex girlfriend and she basically hurt his feelings really bad over the weekend. He relys on me for a lot of things because I'm his only close friend along with the few other friends he barely cares about. Also this weekend I found out something that is devastating to my health... I have schizophrenia... And he is afraid to lose me and I'm like basically rotting away in my own damn mind.... The crazier I keep getting the closer he clings on to me. I love him like a brother I never had and he has done a lot for me. And I have done a lot for him. But my time is running out.... "There's no way I can be saved..." from a song that I wrote... Soo I'm in need of advice

Please help me

Sincerely, MyGiftToYou or Nicole

  1. justahellava avatar

    On Thu, Feb 2, 2012 at 4:49 AM, justahellava said:

    write a more positive song maybe about your freind so you both might get to enjoy it and cherish the moment

  2. Fairynuff1979 avatar

    On Thu, Feb 2, 2012 at 4:47 AM, Fairynuff1979 said:

    Sounds like you are each others rock in life. Do as your doctors ask, take your medication religiously to keep you well and seek support when you need it. Things may seem devastating at the moment but with love and support you'll learn to live with it as part of who you are. Don't be disheartened and don't fold into yourself. You will always find a friendly ear here if you need to talk, vent etc. Your diagnosis in just part of who you are it doesn't define you. Just remember you are amazing and ppl care about you. But most of all stay healthy and remember you have a whole Korn family who love you.

    Love and best wishes
    Fairy xxx

  3. Tamar avatar

    On Wed, Feb 1, 2012 at 7:33 PM, Tamar said:

    What do you need? That's the primary question. What you want to do and what your good friend needs come next. But remember what they say on the airline... If the cabin loses pressure and the oxygen mask falls, put the mask on yourself first. Then take care of the person next to you. If you aren't well, you can't care for anybody.

  4. Sleazy Violet avatar

    On Wed, Feb 1, 2012 at 10:05 AM, Sleazy Violet said:

    Well thats a tricky one. I mean, my best friend went out with my other best friend and as soon as she broke up with him I was the only person that he could rely on. I was the only person that understood his pain and longing. Clearly, you have to think about what do you want to do in this situation first :) What are your options?

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